性格决定命运
性格决定命运范文第1篇
在中国文学史上，建安文学以其崭新而爽朗的风格备受后世关注。以三曹(曹操、曹丕和曹植)和七子为代表，各位作家成就非凡，各领风骚。其中最负盛名者莫如曹植。曹植，为曹操第四子，曹丕同母弟，累封为陈王，谥为“忍”，世称陈思王。曹植文学才华在其兄曹丕之上，政治才干却比不上，加上性格的率性纯真，导致在政治斗争的失败，开始其后生的颠沛生活，报国无门，郁郁而终，可以说，是他“不自雕励、任性而行”的性格酿成了他的悲剧。
曹植生于汉献帝初平年间，时值天下大乱，植自幼随父转徙于军旅，如其自言是“生乎乱，长乎军”。他亲历战乱，接触了广阔的社会现实，为其创作积累了非常丰富的素材。建安年间，曹操逐渐统一了中原，他网罗了不少文学之士，为文学的发展提供方便。曹植在这种文学氛围中极大地发展了自己的文学才能。以建安为界，他的创作分前后期，前期宽闲安逸，后期抒写个人的不幸遭遇。这完全与其性格分不开的。
曹植曾是一富贵公子，过着斗鸡走马、宴饮无暇的糜烂生活。《斗鸡篇》里说：“长宴坐戏客，斗鸡观闲房。”可以说是整日无所事事。《名都篇》有：“斗鸡东郊道，走马长揪间。”不过他并没有完全沉迷在这种整日斗鸡走马的把戏里，前期有些诗篇可看出积极进取之精神，如《白马篇》描写渴望征战沙场，为国捐躯的英雄精神。有些则有慷慨之气，如《赠丁仪》。雅好慷慨为当时建安风气，不独曹植有。这与当时天下大乱人们建功立业的机会多而快，慷慨豪迈的情绪四溢，加之曹操这个活样板的榜样力量，时人渴创一番事业。这也是曹植念念不忘去上表自试，望能一展政治抱负的原因之一。
建安前期，曹植因才干与文学造诣的不凡得到曹操的宠爱。当铜雀台建成时，曹操让各子作赋，“植援笔立成”，一下子引起曹操的注意，“异之”。“每进见难问，应声而对，特见宠爱”。曹操因此想立曹植为继承人，认为他是“最可定大事”，对他寄以很高的期望。本来，如果按此照样发展，他会接替曹操之位。但是，偏偏他的诗人的纯真率性慢慢为曹操所看不惯，失掉了宠爱，并招来曹丕对他的猜忌。
曹操爱惜文才，这从他网罗各文人学士于府中和到大漠去赎回蔡文姬可看出来。但是，作为政治家、军事家，他更看重政治品质。他不愿意他辛苦一生的江山拱手让人。他逐渐发现了曹植“任性而行，不自雕励，饮酒不节”等坏毛病。作为诗人，曹植的做法和性格无可厚非，常人会认为此乃诗人之特殊。但作为政治家的继承者，太不稳重，易授人话柄，难以服众。
有以上的缺点，在曹操眼中已失掉资本，即使没有曹丕的“以术相倾”，抬高自己，贬低曹植，曹操也不会考虑把王位传给曹植。加上善于机心的曹丕“御之以术，矫情自饰”，收买人心，致使宫人左右纷纷为他说好话。曹操逐渐把天平倾向曹丕也是必然的。曹丕这一手段后来为隋炀帝所效仿，同样是铺平了通往皇座之道路。不同的是杨勇终于没能逃出生天，曹植则保全了性命。
曹植空有政治抱负而无政治头脑，在失掉父亲的宠爱后仍不自知，继续任性罔为，不自雕励。如有次他居然私自“乘车行驰道中，开司马门出”。这显然是不按制度而为！已经触犯了“王法”，使原先认为曹植是“儿中最可定大事者”的曹操大为恼火，彻底改变了对曹植的看法。
大概是想对曹植作个警告，也提醒下属们别忘了自己的本分，曹操杀了曹植的得意谋士杨修。在《三国演义》里，杨修一句“食之无味，弃之可惜”的鸡肋宣言，猜透了曹操心事。让曹操感受到威胁，借动摇军心的罪名把杨修的头挂到营门上去。曹植深受震动。此时此刻，曹植已失去父亲的信任了。
曹丕趁机落井下石。当曹操派曹植带兵去救被关羽围困的曹仁时，曹丕在曹植将行前“逼而醉之”。曹操要召见曹植，醉到成泥的曹植当然不能接受命令，这无疑让曹操对曹植的坏印象又加了几分。曹植的缺乏政治头脑于此又见一斑。
曹丕称帝后，对曹植的猜忌加深，老想找机会杀掉心头大患。一次，他苛刻地要求曹植七步成诗，故意刁难。曹植作《七步诗》：“煮豆燃斗箕，漉豉以为汁。箕在釜下燃，豆在釜中泣。本是同根生，相煎何太急？”以箕豆相煎喻骨肉相残，内中有无限感伤，其实又是对曹丕的冷嘲热讽。最后，如果没有太后的维护，估计曹植亦难逃大难。因为以曹丕的为人和能力，要在诗中找点什么破绽，不是什么难事。
从此，曹植诚惶诚恐，屡次遭贬，四处迁徙，生活困顿。但肉体所受之苦比不上心灵创伤之苦。黄初四年，诸侯王入京朝见皇帝，任城王曹彰突然死了，死得不明不白；与白马王同归藩地又遭有司横加干涉，兄弟间生离死别，倍感凄酸。《赠白马王彪》说“苍蝇间白黑，谗巧令亲疏”，对兄长曹丕仍有所保留，一来环境险恶，二来内心仍存在幻想，那种对骨肉亲情的幻想。在黄初三年写的《洛神赋》，就表达了美好愿望幻灭的失落、伤心和苦闷，有冤无路诉。
性格决定命运范文第2篇
在中国文学史上，建安文学以其崭新而爽朗的风格备受后世关注。以三曹(曹操、曹丕和曹植)和七子为代表，各位作家成就非凡，各领。其中最负盛名者莫如曹植。曹植，为曹操第四子，曹丕同母弟，累封为陈王，谥为“忍”，世称陈思王。曹植文学才华在其兄曹丕之上，政治才干却比不上，加上性格的率性纯真，导致在政治斗争的失败，开始其后生的颠沛生活，报国无门，郁郁而终，可以说，是他“不自雕励、任性而行”的性格酿成了他的悲剧。
曹植生于汉献帝初平年间，时值天下大乱，植自幼随父转徙于军旅，如其自言是“生乎乱，长乎军”。他亲历战乱，接触了广阔的社会现实，为其创作积累了非常丰富的素材。建安年间，曹操逐渐统一了中原，他网罗了不少文学之士，为文学的发展提供方便。曹植在这种文学氛围中极大地发展了自己的文学才能。以建安为界，他的创作分前后期，前期宽闲安逸，后期抒写个人的不幸遭遇。这完全与其性格分不开的。
曹植曾是一富贵公子，过着斗鸡走马、宴饮无暇的糜烂生活。《斗鸡篇》里说：“长宴坐戏客，斗鸡观闲房。”可以说是整日无所事事。《名都篇》有：“斗鸡东郊道，走马长揪间。”不过他并没有完全沉迷在这种整日斗鸡走马的把戏里，前期有些诗篇可看出积极进取之精神，如《白马篇》描写渴望征战沙场，为国捐躯的英雄精神。有些则有慷慨之气，如《赠丁仪》。雅好慷慨为当时建安风气，不独曹植有。这与当时天下大乱人们建功立业的机会多而快，慷慨豪迈的情绪四溢，加之曹操这个活样板的榜样力量，时人渴创一番事业。这也是曹植念念不忘去上表自试，望能一展政治抱负的原因之一。
建安前期，曹植因才干与文学造诣的不凡得到曹操的宠爱。当铜雀台建成时，曹操让各子作赋，“植援笔立成”，一下子引起曹操的注意，“异之”。“每进见难问，应声而对，特见宠爱”。曹操因此想立曹植为继承人，认为他是“最可定大事”，对他寄以很高的期望。本来，如果按此照样发展，他会接替曹操之位。但是，偏偏他的诗人的纯真率性慢慢为曹操所看不惯，失掉了宠爱，并招来曹丕对他的猜忌。
曹操爱惜文才，这从他网罗各文人学士于府中和到大漠去赎回蔡文姬可看出来。但是，作为政治家、军事家，他更看重政治品质。他不愿意他辛苦一生的江山拱手让人。他逐渐发现了曹植“任性而行，不自雕励，饮酒不节”等坏毛病。作为诗人，曹植的做法和性格无可厚非，常人会认为此乃诗人之特殊。但作为政治家的继承者，太不稳重，易授人话柄，难以服众。
有以上的缺点，在曹操眼中已失掉资本，即使没有曹丕的“以术相倾”，抬高自己，贬低曹植，曹操也不会考虑把王位传给曹植。加上善于机心的曹丕“御之以术，矫情自饰”，收买人心，致使宫人左右纷纷为他说好话。曹操逐渐把天平倾向曹丕也是必然的。曹丕这一手段后来为隋炀帝所效仿，同样是铺平了通往皇座之道路。不同的是杨勇终于没能逃出生天，曹植则保全了性命。
曹植空有政治抱负而无政治头脑，在失掉父亲的宠爱后仍不自知，继续任性罔为，不自雕励。如有次他居然私自“乘车行驰道中，开司马门出”。这显然是不按制度而为！已经触犯了“王法”，使原先认为曹植是“儿中最可定大事者”的曹操大为恼火，彻底改变了对曹植的看法。
大概是想对曹植作个警告，也提醒下属们别忘了自己的本分，曹操杀了曹植的得意谋士杨修。在《三国演义》里，杨修一句“食之无味，弃之可惜”的鸡肋宣言，猜透了曹操心事。让曹操感受到威胁，借动摇军心的罪名把杨修的头挂到营门上去。曹植深受震动。此时此刻，曹植已失去父亲的信任了。
曹丕趁机落井下石。当曹操派曹植带兵去救被关羽围困的曹仁时，曹丕在曹植将行前“逼而醉之”。曹操要召见曹植，醉到成泥的曹植当然不能接受命令，这无疑让曹操对曹植的坏印象又加了几分。曹植的缺乏政治头脑于此又见一斑。
曹丕称帝后，对曹植的猜忌加深，老想找机会杀掉心头大患。一次，他苛刻地要求曹植七步成诗，故意刁难。曹植作《七步诗》：“煮豆燃斗箕，漉豉以为汁。箕在釜下燃，豆在釜中泣。本是同根生，相煎何太急？”以箕豆相煎喻骨肉相残，内中有无限感伤，其实又是对曹丕的冷嘲热讽。最后，如果没有太后的维护，估计曹植亦难逃大难。因为以曹丕的为人和能力，要在诗中找点什么破绽，不是什么难事。
从此，曹植诚惶诚恐，屡次遭贬，四处迁徙，生活困顿。但肉体所受之苦比不上心灵创伤之苦。黄初四年，诸侯王入京朝见皇帝，任城王曹彰突然死了，死得不明不白；与白马王同归藩地又遭有司横加干涉，兄弟间生离死别，倍感凄酸。《赠白马王彪》说“苍蝇间白黑，谗巧令亲疏”，对兄长曹丕仍有所保留，一来环境险恶，二来内心仍存在幻想，那种对骨肉亲情的幻想。在黄初三年写的《洛神赋》，就表达了美好愿望幻灭的失落、伤心和苦闷，有冤无路诉。
性格决定命运范文第3篇
成功的人应该是学三种人唱两首歌：雷锋一样做好事，李素丽一样勤勤恳恳，敬岗爱业，阿庆嫂一样左右逢源，唱国际歌（从来就没有什么救世主，也不靠神仙皇帝，要创造人类的幸福，全靠我们自己），唱义勇军进行曲（前进，前进，前前进）。
每个人都渴望成功，但每个人对成功的理解可能是不一样的，每个人的追求也不尽相同。那段话在我看来，他说的是成功的人应该有的性格（或者说素质吧）。
知识决定命运性格改变命运。了解性格，认识性格并很好地改变性格以适应在充满激烈竞争的社会中生存就显得尤为重要。人的性格是千差万别的，每个人都有自己独特的性格，每个人都有与众不同之处。性格不是简单的1加1的运算，性格是个复杂的东西，我们很难用一个词或几个词来准确的形容每个人的性格，但性格却又区分人与人之间差异的重要标志之一。
很多时候，失败并不意味着永远的失败，失败只是成功的一个过程，它是每个成功人士必经的阶段，所以，千万不要被一时的失败永远地打倒。只要有勇气从失败中站起来，只要有决心去争取成功，那命运还是掌握在自己的手中，成功还是在眼前。但取得成功不能靠别人，如果你不想成功，那谁也帮不了你，更何况谁也不会逼你去成功。成功还是要靠自己，靠自己的意志，靠自己的努力，靠自己的态度，靠自己的习惯，特别是靠自己性格的调整……也就是说，我们每个人都应该是靠自己拼博去获取成功。
性格决定命运范文第4篇
The thesis introduces the fate of Robinson Crusoe， and the lesson that his choice and his final fate give us. It describes Robinson Crusoe went out from his parents’ house to sail in the sea without following his parents’ advice for his own dream though his parents had leaved lots of properties for him. What he wanted was freedom， and the life which he created. When he successfully left his home for the sea， he met the serious disasters that he could not imagine before starting his trip， but he decided to continue his sailing， which leaded to his finally drafting to an isolated island. Luckily， he escaped from the terrible place， and began his new life. We can see that Robinson Crusoe is a person with stubborn and firm character. The thesis aims to discuss and praise Robinson Crusoe and his choice according to his own thought， and it also tells us that we should insist on our own choices and be responsible for them.
Key Words
Character; fate; work; effect
摘 要
论文介绍了鲁滨逊的命运，及他的选择和最后命运给我们的教训。它描述了鲁滨逊不顾父母的劝阻而绝然的离家出海，尽管他的父母给他留下了一笔可观的财产。他想要的是自由，他自己创造的生活。当他成功的离家而出海后，遇到了他之前所想象不到的灾难，但他还是决定继续航海，这就导致了他后来漂流到一个孤岛上，幸运的是他最后逃离了那个可怕的地方，并开始了他新的生活。从这里我们就可以知道他是一个顽固同时也很坚定的人。这篇论文意在讨论和赞扬鲁滨逊及他按照自己的想法选择生活的性格，同时还告诉我们要坚持自己的决定并为自己的选择负责。
关键词
性格；命运；劳动；作用
Introduction
Character decides fate. Human being is the center of the world. Since human being opens their eyes， they are confused by their fate. While under the same social background， family environment， and with the same intelligence， some people are successful， but others are failing. The reason is the different kinds of character. Accordingly， different character lead to their different kinds of fate. According to the dictionary， character is the mental or moral qualities that make a person， group， nation， etc different from others. Generally speaking， character is the psychologist feature in the attitude and behavior when a person deal with people and matters， such as reasonable， stable， and frank. But character is not just simple， for every kind of character has its different sides; the cultural background of temperament is the basic factor of character. Fate is the power believed to control all events in a way that can not be resisted; destiny. Fate is not so mysterious that can not be mastered. When a person is in his old age， he can know what to do and how to deal with them. In fact， this is the convert of the outside fate to inside character. If a person masters his character， he controls his fate at the same time. In the world which is full of fierce competition， a person must firstly know his character， and then command his character well， he can be a popular man in the world. Otherwise， he may falls behind others， and be discriminated. The following is the detailed discussion of character and fate. Robinson Crusoe sets a good example for us.
I. The Brief Introuduction of the original works
A. The Introuduction of The Author
The author of Robinson Crusoe， Daniel Defoe was born in a good commercial family in 1660， in London. He was once a businessman， who ran the enterprise of underclothes， cigarettes and wine trade， he had lived through some difficulties， but he could save his enterprise every time after his failure， meanwhile， he showed us his stable determination to fight against his fate. He could not be destroyed. All of those experiences paved the way of thought and technique of the accomplishment of his masterpiece Robinson Crusoe. That is， the success of Robinson Crusoe is not occasional. It is said that besides Bible， Robinson Crusoe is the most published book. Today， the book has been regarded as the first long fiction in the world.
B. the Introduction of the Brief Content
Robinson Crusoe was written under the enlightenment of a real story in 18th. A Scottish seafaring man in Britain ship named Alengzander slake clashed against his captain， and was deserted in an isolated island， which had the distance of 500 meters far away from the coast of Chile. He lived alone there for about four years; he was finally saved by a famous sailor and was taken home in 1771. The event had evoked great interesting in the Europe. Robinson Crusoe， who was created by Daniel Defoe， was a representative of bourgeoisie， an ideal hero， what he advocated was not to satisfy with annoyance， but to develop， to work and to attain something through your effort. We can see the tradition of western civilization from him and his adventure spirit. The works praises people’s work spirit. The fiction opens up the way of English realism fiction. Robinson Crusoe， who was the protagonist of The Life and Strange Surprising Adventures of Robinson Crusoe， was a person of stubborn， aggressive and firm. Because of his decision to go out to see the outside world and know it， he finally went out to be a sailor without the concession of his parents. He became a slave in the coast of Africa because of the attack by a group of pirates， but he later escaped there for that he can not bear the hard life， and he was saved by a Portugal ship， and he was carried to Brazil safely， where he attained a lot of money. But he was not satisfied with such property and designed to his dream to be on the way to sell slaves in Africa when somebody advised him to do so. Just because of it， he was flowed to an isolated island and was reduced to a lonely man without any company. Thank goodness， there were so much food， clothes and tools left in the ship which was wrecked on the coast. He could still be alive for those materials. During the period， Bible was his spirit support， he built house， got rice， tamed sheep and made leather clothes by the fur of animals. After twenty eight years， he was saved by an English ship to England.
II. The Process of Being Locked on the Isolated Island
A. The Conflict of Robinson Crusoe’s Character
We can not clearly define the character of Robinson Crusoe， because his character was complex. On the one hand， he was undoubtedly weak for his bourgeois status， he was tired of the boring commercial life， and was afraid of the existed and disagreeable way to be rich and devoting all his life to such common profession; he wanted to have another life style which could supply him excitement and energy. In a word， he wanted to attain most of what he wanted， and be far away from the earthly world. He wanted to live a special life. On the other hand， he liked freedom， and attempted to pursue his own life， he was also willing to achieve his dream at any price， even worked hard. His strong point of his character was showed here completely. His weakness in the common life just converted to the strong point of his later sailing life， which was a sharp different world from what he had lived for about twenty years.
B.The First Decision to Go for Sailing
Robinson Crusoe was supposed to live happy and easy life， but he attempted to go out from his parents’ house to sail in the sea without following his parents’ advice for his own dream though his parents had leaved lots of property for him. He came out with several companies and began his sailing life.
C.The Second Decision to Stay in the Sea
All of his thought promoted him to go out to Hull， and met one of his friends， who persuaded him to go to London， so he suffered the first storm in the sea. At this time， he wanted to go home very much and felt regret that he did not follow his parents’ words， but when the sea calmed down， he forgot the fear and worry during the storm， just concentrated himself to the beautiful and peaceful evening. This was the second time he followed his own thought and created the prelude of his later lonely life.
D. Meeting the Serious Disaster in the Sea
Once he decided to stay in the sea， his fate could not be controlled by himself but only the disasters in the sea. The storm was varied and changeable. It could take away his life anytime， his second unhappiness was coming. This was a storm lasted longer and more serious than the first time. Luckily， he and his company were saved. This time he may probably go back with the grave persuasion of an older. But still he did not go back just for his pity self-ego， he was afraid of confronting with the discrimination and hatred opposed the best motions that to go home，
That they are not asham’d to sin， and yet was asham’d to repent， not asham’d of the Action for which they ought justly to be esteem’d fools， but are asham’d of the returning， which only can make them be esteem’d wise men.(Defoe，16)
This was the third time his personality put him to the abyss of his unlucky fate.
E. Being Locked in the Isolated Island
Thus， he continued to sail with his company， but unluckily， they were attacked by a group of pirates， Robinson Crusoe was caught as a slave of a Moor. Though he finally escaped from his Master， and earned enough money by doing some trade with others， and could live a quiet retired life and of which his father had so carefully described the middle station of life， he was still interested in some other things， he finally went to Africa to do the business of selling slaves， which was the real beginning of his unlucky fate. From now on， he was locked in the isolated island.
F. The Character of Robinson Crusoe
From the above facts， we the readers may hold that Robinson Crusoe was a person with unreasonable， even mad personality， he could be easy and happy whatever life style he chose as long as he had not decide to go to Africa. Before he was reduced to be a lonely man， he had experienced the similar condition， the only difference was he was saved and could live the normal life， he himself once said that if he was not so aggressive and impious， he could never experience such kind of terrible life. When he was concentrated in the great ecstasy of survival， new danger was waiting for him. The life on the isolated island was difficult that we can not imagine. There were no existed food， no place to have a rest， no people to communicate with， besides all of these， the worst was the fear itself， he would be attacked by wild animal anytime， Therefore， he must be alert to everything every time. If Robinson Crusoe was weak， he might have lost his heart to continue his life， and might do nothing. But he did not do so， the base of his unlucky fate was just his aggressive character， therefore， he was not depressed， not negative but positive to fight against nature， all of his activities were not only for survival， but also for creation. The first problem he must solve on the island was survival， Robinson Crusoe was born in the middle class family， so he believed his own strength very much， he believe only his own effort， not others’， can help him to make his dream come true， to help him climb up the ladder of the social. Therefore， he moved all of the useful materials to the island and did not fell tired for about forty times. So， he felt not so sad when the wrecked ship was flown by sea wave and then he built tent， made fence， built the house to live in， caught fish and sheep as food. In a word， he did everything he could to prepare for his later life on the isolated island. Thank goodness， he attained enough food and materials to live on， and because of his kindness， he saved a person named Friday， who helped Robinson Crusoe a lot， finally they saved a ship， in turn， the people in the ship saved them， they took them back to Britain. Until now， we could see Robinson Crusoe was reduced to be a vagrant， but finally he came back to human being.
From his life that he escaped from his family to being saved by others， what he faced was almost all difficulty. Through the slight description and discussion， we have been informed that what Robinson Crusoe faced was almost all difficulty and dangers that a common people can hardly deal with， even dare not confront with， but Robinson Crusoe faced them bravely. Just as his words， it is disgusting to cherish the thought of going home to live easy life. He held there was a kind of mysterious force made him go forward， and he attributed all of this to God’s will， he showed his aggressive character that he did not want to obey the traditional life style， his so-called “mysterious predestination” just reflected spirit condition of denying the bound of modern tradition and demanding the development of primate freedom， his strange thought just reflected his courage and lofty quality of opening up new world， all of which formed his bourgeois character.
From all these above， we could come to the conclusion that Robinson Crusoe chose his life， and was responsible for his own choice， he saved himself in the loneliness for a long time， he was successful. What I want to say is that， his success was not only due to his survival， but also his maintained health and integrity and personality， he still had the common sense， which had not been corroded by endless loneliness， in turn， he abstained his fruit that a common can not achieve even can not imagine. We could praise him undoubtedly that he is a hero， a hero not only in his own times， his own country， but also in all human being. His strong mind， kind heart， aggressive temperament help him achieve the utmost of his life， in the above passage， we have analyzed Robinson Crusoe was a person with complex character， he was weak in the earthly society， but strong minded in his own choice and he was kindhearted to save Friday who finally helped him escaped from that isolated island. The adventure story tells us， as a human being， we’d better live according to our own will， whatever disasters we will meet， and the most important point is we must form a good character that can be responsible for the life we have chosen. It is important to have a character of strong minded， steadfast， tough and tensile to face our life. Just as Shakespeare’s motto in Cymbeline: trouble is the mother of strong for ever.
III. Different Character， Different Fate
A. The Important Role of Character in the Daily Life
In our modern society， people live in a world that contains fierce competition; most people live with great pressure. There is an American journalist interviewed the great banker：“ what is the most factor of your success?” He answered without any hesitation: “Character”， a series of questions following: what is character? What kind of character is good for success in such a society?
B. The Relationship between Proper and Improper Character
Psychologists find that improper character is an important factor leading to be suffered and failure， such as sensitive， sheltie， stubborn， unconfident， introversive， self-center， irritable， and pay excessive attention to other’s evaluation. In fact， the development of healthy and integrated character is more important than the intelligence， just like ability can be formed gradually， but habit need our continuous training; many successful companies focus on first the degree of the expansion of the employees’ character when they are planning to absorb some new workers.
The conception of temperament is wider than human nature and personality， it has not only informed factor， but also a social factor， we can list a series of advantage of character， also can arrange disadvantage， they just like the two sides of a coin， they depend on each other， and react on each other. The strong point is usually the resource of shortage， the elaborate of advantage usually exposes on the biggest disadvantage. The effective step is: to see clearly your own strong points， and know your shortage， only treating yourself well， improving yourself can you go forward firmly.
C. The Correct Attitude towards One’s Proper and Improper Character
The people who have drawback in temperament will not live so happy life compare to those who are positive to life in doing their business， study， treating others and dealing with matters in their daily lives， and they may enjoy the different feeling. After you experience much trials and hardships in your life， and if you are positive sanguine， strong minded， kind and gentle， you will have the chance to enjoy the feeling that king sponsored: to sow one kind of temperament， to gain a kind of success.
It is said that God is fair， and everyone is the apple that has been bitted by God. Actually， this theory is easy to be understood by anyone. But in our real life many people can not accepted their own shortage， and accordingly they complain all day instead of doing some useful thing to make amends for their shortcoming， they can not be saved， God has deserted them. While， there are still a group of people with strong mind just like Robinson Crusoe， they never give up when they are in trouble， even in despair condition. This kind of people is the real hero of our society， we should learn from them.
Ⅳ. Detailed Examples
A. The Example of Sanglan
The world is so complex and changeable that it is hard for a person to live well， let alone those disabled ones. For instance， our famous national gymnast Sanglan， she took part in the gymnastic training when she was a child， she was very industrious， she do the exercise every day from dawn until dark， and with the help of the strict coach， she could master the spirit of the gymnastic， so she finally got the qualification of participating the Olympic Games， much still， she often wins the golden medal， but， when she was concentrated in the great joys， she felt off and broke her legs in one of the Olympic Games. From that time on， she became a handicapped woman， and could not still stay in her loved and familiar gymnastic field. This was a great punch on Sanglan. But after a short time for sadness， she finally overcame herself with the consol and help of her family members， her relatives and the public people who like her. She can feel a botch of light is shooting at her in the darkness; she converted her despair to hope， and accepted a job worked as a host， we the audiences can see her bright smile appear on her face again. She did not absorb herself in the sadness for a long time， and she did not complain her unlucky fate endlessly， she was like Robinson Crusoe. In the beginning， they chose their lives according to their own will bravely， irrespective of what kind of difficult they will meet; their character forced them to confront with their joy and sadness of their lives. That was their fate， the fate they chose and faced.
B. The Story of Einstein
There are a great number of such kinds of events. Einstein was well-known in our world， and he was a person who liked to stay alone， for he could get aspiration when he stayed alone to create the famous theory. We can understand him from different aspects， but he regarded himself as a lonely traveler， if we try to understand him from this aspect， we will get new information of the great scientist. He was the greatest scientist in the atom times， and also the most brilliant intellectual in existence. He liked to stay alone to think some profound issues. It is worthy in referring to that his loneliness was not forced but his choice， he could live well and do some matters in the loneliness which is regarded to beunbearable by most people. Actually， loneliness has two sides， if you make friends with him， he will like you， too， but once you hated him and fought against him， he also treated you in the same way. Einstein adhered to his own principle all the time， though his loneliness became clash with the outside world， he just replied them with silence. His understanding of lonesome is deep， he held that a real scientist can bear loneliness， and a well bred man also needed primate life and put it to objective and logic world. This is just like the people live in the noisy big city， he desire to search for a quiet， fresh life. Einstein’s explanation of his lonely temperament was full of theory， and had listed to the degree of transcend real and perceptive world. Therefore Einstein never fell unrest for his loneliness， because he hates the deliration in the earthly world. Only break away from the deliration and quarrel， can scientists find themselves and the real freedom in their own field. When his second wife died in 1936， his life changed basically， loneliness is not his character and his thought any more， but it became true， it became his close company in his daily life. His felling of loneliness usually can be seen on his face. When his relatives and his little sister died in 1950s， Einstein was hit heavily again. He was tangled with loneliness from that time on. But he overcame all of obstacles and contributed a lot to human being， the objective field that only scientists can enter while the common people can hardly understand. Supposed the scientists are not the lonely traveler in this field， what achievement we can get? Einstein can be regarded as a great man in our human society. This is a second example to tell us that only make ourselves be firm， can we be the winner of our lives.
It is said that fate can not be resisted， while it is possible to change your temperament. It is not only inborn， to shape it in the day after tomorrow is also important. The recent survey issued in America showed that the average intelligence of the successful people in the field of politics and trade is in the middle level， but their emotional quality is high. In fact， the factor of EQ is included in the character， therefore， our opinion that character decides fate is proved by science. Actually， we do not need to prove the point， only looking at the various famous men in the human history， they are the undoubtedly proved. Although some of them are successful， and others are failing， each of their fate is related closely to their personality and special temperament.
In the history， for the unfair chance， the factor of character is not so important， but today， in the highly developed information times， the same opportunity is existed in the front of almost everyone， the only difference is the different attitudes to treat opportunity， the form is decided by character finally. In such a society， we have no reason to neglect our responsibility， and have no space to complain， what we should do is only to form our temperament， and to grasp our own fate.
C. The Story of Danna
Danna， the queen of England， her astonishing beauty overmastered the prince， and also overcame all the people in the world. This is not the crucial factor that influenced her fate， but her treasonable temperament. Concerning to Danna， there seem to be many topics. Nowadays， she had not existed in the world， but what she leaves to us is some beautiful recollection， the great domino effect she made in her life is not easy for us to efface. From a pure little girl to a famous queen， and finally broke away from the loyalty， porced with Charlie， the unusual experience showed us her temperament and personality. People paid more attention to her beauty， mild， but neglected the other sides of her temperament---- treason. Treason and mellow seemed to be contradict， but they coexisted in her body， formed her short life. It was just the connection of the two that characters created her specialty and misfortune. If she was not so beautiful， she was not the queen， at the same time， she could avoid a lot of misery in her life. As a queen， she really got the imaginable wealth， but she also paid high cost for it. If she was not treasonable， and only obeyed the various rules of the loyalty， did not fight against her fate， though she was still a famous somebody， the judgment of people to her was different. If we say the loyalty changed the fate of Danna， then this was the inevitable result she fought against her fate from a pure girl to a treasonable queen. The behave and dressing of Danna were different gradually from the several rules of the loyalty， so it was normal for her to be blamed. In the loyal that was famous for their conservation， the common and normal behavior in her eyes can not be understood. For example， she liked to stand beside the playground to whoop and clap for her children when they were playing football there， and bought clothes for her children in the flesh in the clothes shop， offered absolute different education to her children， aiming to let her children know the real world， the real life. All of these opposed to the tradition and rule of the loyalty. The loyalty could not bear the queen with so treasonable character and queen Danna could not accept the kinds of rule， when such rules lose its effect on Danna， she certainly left there. These were the life trace of queen Danna. A great person who can just be a good mother， but not a so-called queen. Finally， she insisted on her own personality and chose her own free life， but not the treasure in the British loyalty. This is a typical example for our point that character decides our life.
D. The Example of Xiangyu
All of the above are the frontal examples; there still are some contrary examples. Some people can not form proper character， and leading to the sad life. Xiangyu was a headstrong and indecisive person， therefore， though he was brave and tenacious， and could be so-called hero， he is still a rude man， he was festinated to be failing for his character. Therefore， the fight between Chu and Han was actually the haggle of temperament. At the beginning and the middle of the fight between Chu and Han， Xiangyu was actually in the advantageous condition， but he failed finally. The failure could be due to his character to the most extent. In the war， though Liubang was a rascal， his character had a lot of advantage that others could not compare， he can accept the words of his court， and was good at using useful people， he also dared to achieve his aim at any price. Although Xiangyu was a hero， he has not the quality of leader that was his indecisive character. For example， he could help his soldier to bind their cuts， but he could not praise them. The morale of the troop could not be evoked， so they failed in the batter.
Conclusion
We can see the frontal and the contrary sides of people’s character from the above introduction; we can also know the importance of our temperament in our daily lives and the competition. A frontal character could help us live easily in the world， while a contrary one just could increase our burden. Robinson Crusoe saved himself by working hard on the isolated island positively and did not design to the difficulties. So he lived a happy life after he was saved， he was the winner of his fate; his character decided his fate finally.
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